Dreaming

Merv has settled in well.  Yesterday he was excited about the Eagles, his favourite footy team.  They were playing at 6pm.  He even spoke a few words, I held my breath and tried to decipher what he was saying.  Names of football players were easier, the rest we tried again or in despair my solution is to nod, smile and agree.  He waved his oversized flag each time his team kicked another goal.  He was happy.
Merv now has Support Workers spending time with him while I go out, either with Mel or by myself.  Usually it's with Mel.  In saying that Mel has connected with a local group for people with mental health issues.  On Friday she had her official appointment.  She discussed her goals and they're already helping her to achieve them.  How amazing is that.  Mel has also joined Weight Watchers and a local art group.
Merv was already to join an all male day centre.  They had told the admin if they wanted to stay indoors they would stay home instead.  These guys wanted to rock n roll!  Well, what they meant is they wanted an outing every week of their choice.  Which is what they got.  I was told Merv had the funding for the day centre and a Support Worker (hopefully male) as he needs full assistance with most things.  He can eat by himself and still has a healthy appetite.  'Cheesecake' being his favourite food and word!  Merv's mobility has gone from bad to worst.  His walking is like a stutter, it is not a lean from side to side like it was before.  I know his brain is not sending the correct messages to his body.  It upsets me.  I don't know how long he has before he will need to go into permanent care.  I can't think about it, but I know I should.
I was all excited about the day centre happening.  Then the email arrived saying there was a 'snag'  but hopefully it can be fixed.  Oh, I was like a deflated balloon!  Like most funding issues I'm not holding my breath....
I am still amazed that in January this year I had no idea I would be living so close to the estuary and the ocean in this wonderful house (which needs ongoing renovation!) 
Yesterday we enjoyed another warm, sunny autumn day.  We walked along the estuary path for sometime, stopping to enjoy the view of the water, ducks and birds.  It was a glorious time.  I often stop Merv's wheelchair so we can enjoy the moment together of just stopping, looking and immersing ourselves in the moment.

Another goal for the Eagles!